Hey mate,

When this happens you need to tighten your range, this means fold average hands like 78, 98s, JT A2 which can't make strong pairs and calling or re-raise with hands like AK/AQ/KQ, which do make strongs pairs.

You say you 'want to see a flop' which tells me you're playing too many hands.

You should read this section about starting hand ranges to get you started.

Good advice thanx. I find myself contributing every time I try and limp in or defend my blind. Especially on the flop when he bets just to bloat the pot more so someone else can win a massive pot.